Saturday, March 29, 2014

The Long-Awaited Birth! Clara has 2 kids! ~A Farming Post

My hope with this post is to delight those who are interested and to give some very basic information to those who are curious.  I also hope to answer some questions I have been asked in the past few days.  If you are interested in reading about the breeding, you can find that here: http://carmelhillbillies.blogspot.com/2013/10/the-breeding-of-goat-farming-post.html

I am pretty sure that in order to be a homeschooler you have to own goats.  Right?
Or chickens.
Or bake all your own bread.  Or is that grind your own grain?

I have previously established that I have never been a 'horse person'.  That is the term I use to cover anyone I grew up with who had large mammals and seemed to enjoy them!  I was not drawn to this lifestyle and frankly I did not pay a lot of attention to it.

Last week my brother Nate teased me and mentioned that he wondered if I had ever even spent any time in the barn!  There were two main 'barns' in our childhood.  One was my Grampie Sjoberg's barn & one was my Great Uncle Glenn's barn.  I answered Nate that I had witnessed a calf being born down at the Duff Farm, even though I don't remember a lot about it.  I spent time with Grampie while he milked his cows & fed the horse.  I even remember pigs being there once.  I spent time in the hay mow.  Of course we got all our milk from the Duff Farm growing up, so sometimes I just spent time in the stainless steel room while Dad grabbed some milk.

I'm pretty sure those who have known me for a long time think that I have lost it.
And I have.
Just not necessarily about my goaties!

So here I sit with muddy, blood-dried knees & a milk-crusted shirt that I am just now realizing I have had on inside-out for the entire day.

Continuing on...

Due Date:  I knew the date we bred Clara, so I counted ahead 150 days and that is how I got her due date of 3/27/14, which is the exact date she ended up having her kids!  Does can kid between 145-155 days.

(The buck we used.)

Pregnancy:  I was unsure of pregnancy for a very long time.  The first seeds of doubt came when about 3 weeks after she was bred, (the next estrus cycle if she was not pregnant), she became loud & showed signs of estrus.  Obviously she was not in estrus or she would not have kidded this week!
  I read & read my goat books and remained unsure!  Eventually though, she started developing an udder.  As a first time freshener, this was a sign I felt very comfortable was a true sign of pregnancy.  Also, last winter she lost a little weight due to the lack of forage that she usually eats.  This winter she gained weight.

On Day 145 of Clara's pregnancy I cleaned out her stall & laid down some lime & then some fresh straw.  We were ready.
Kinda.
Except for the anxiety I felt in the pit of my stomach, unsure of exactly what to do with Clara if she needed help.  Unsure of exactly what to do with the kids if they needed help.  It didn't help matters that this is one of the coldest Marches on record and I did not want to walk in the Goat Shed in the wee hours of the morning to find kids that were too-cold and had died, something that has happened to a few people I know.  Plus, I have had the experience of having a very sick goatie and I want to avoid soemthing like that ever happening again!!  I found it a little bit paralyzing and I wore a path back and forth to the Shed, checking on Clara.
More specifically checking her 'nether region' for mucus.  Checking her spine for loosening
ligaments.


In the weeks previous to this I've been gathering my supplies, all the while frantically reading goat books and online articles about what to expect during kidding.
Did I really need to buy a calf puller?  
Let's hope not because I didn't!
I bought nipples & iodine & gloves & rubbing alcohol, just in case.  I bought a milkpail & gentle cleaner for the udder & collected & cleaned some old towels.  We vaccinated Clara & Katahdin, (our two does), and purchased vaccinations to give any kids that would come.

Noelle wanted to be woken up for kidding.  Micah did not!  Noelle asked me if she could name a kid.  Now that was hard to give up!  I gave in and she did indeed name our girl, (doeling):  Esmeralda, Esme for short.  Our buckling is not going to stay with us, but Micah named him Nahum anyway.

I literally prayed that kidding would come.

Day 149 and in the morning I see this glorious drip of mucus.
There had been some mucus before but I really thought that Day 149 would be the day.
But... it wasn't.

Day 149:  11 p.m. - Kevin checks and the report is 'nothing.'
Day 150:  5 a.m.- Nothing.

I was actually not feeling 100% and I fell back asleep at 7 a.m. and woke up again at 9:00.  Checked her again.  Nothing.

I am SO thankful that I went down again around 10:00-10:30ish.  The first thing I saw was the mucus plug in the straw!  WOW!  Then I saw two little hooves poking out!  I am so thankful that the timing was right.  I was home all day & not working.  The family we got Clara & Katahdin from haven't had the chance to see any of their births.  They always have come to the barn to find kids!
I very excitedly ran up toward the house shouting, "It's happening!  It's happening!"  
The boy who hadn't wanted to see the birth excitedly pulled on boots and coat, as did Noelle & as did Kevin!  I grabbed my clean towels and some other supplies.  We brought a few porch chairs in.  My doe, Clara, has a great temperament.  But I didn't want to scare her, so we talked in quiet tones.  Poor Katahdin, (our other doe), was expelled from our goat shed and wasn't too happy about it.  She was right outside the door, very curious about what was going on inside!


I've watched enough Youtube videos of goats giving birth at this point, (yeah.  seriously.), to know that Clara was considerably quieter than many goats are while having contractions & giving birth.  Really, moments after we arrived in the Goat Shed, Clara was giving birth.


This is the best presentation.  Front hooves & head first.  


There are different schools of thought about nearly everything in life, aren't there?  Co-sleeping with your baby or separate rooms?  Homeschooling, public school, or Christian school?  GMO-free food?  Free trade chocolate?  Lots of choices and many are not right/wrong ones.  The list goes on and on.  So it is with these matters as well.  As I mentioned, I did a lot of reading leading up to this birth and watched a lot of disgusting videos that made me want to vomit.  

Some goat owners start pulling on & helping the kid out as soon as it starts coming out.  Some goats give birth lying down, some standing up.  I decided ahead of time that if I wasn't needed to assist the birth than I wasn't going to help with the pulling and I would let nature take it's course.  Much like what reassured me when I was pregnant, goats, (in my case- women!) have been having babies for thousands of years.  It's all probably going to be okay!

It does not hurt the baby to fall at birth.  I was worried that Clara would step on her, but she was pretty aware of where she was.  Of course the question of the moment was 'Girl or Boy?' but we didn't want to disturb the natural process very much so we didn't immediately look to see.


If the kid isn't breathing at birth you do need to rub it down and wipe the mucus from it's nose and mouth.  This kid, (later to be named Esme), was breathing just fine.  I did wipe her down a bit, but Clara nearly immediately turned to her and started licking.  That is one of the reasons why you put down straw and not shavings.  Shavings are easier for the goat to ingest.  

Several times during this process it was very cool to see the natural instincts that God gave animals.

I had instructions as to how to cut and tie the umbilical cord, if needed.  However it usually breaks on it's own, (as happened with both kids Clara had), or the doe will chew through it.


Goats typically have 2 babies, although some of my books say 2-4 are the normal.  We didn't know what to expect or how closely they would come.  However, it wasn't long at all until it was clear Clara was having contractions.  Being my first time, I wasn't sure if this would be the placenta coming or another baby.  Her rear was away from me, so I moved into another stall and stood on a chair to see what was happening.  Pretty soon we saw hooves again.


You can really see what the mucus plug looks like here, once it is out.  The 'bubble' I didn't get to see with Kid #1, and this one wasn't as big and pronounced as I thought it would be.

Kid #2 presented in the second best way - back hooves first, then butt.  Any other presentation but the two we experienced often will need a little intervention - something I am very glad I didn't have to do.


Again, a little towel drying and some licking off by Clara.  By this point, Kid #1 was trying to stand.  




Not sure if there would be more kids, we were on the lookout for that.  Clara had kidded these two so quietly that it was hard to tell if more were coming.

A little more licking...

Nothing else seemed to be coming.  We gave Clara some warm water with molasses.  She earned it!  She hadn't had any feed that morning and she was hungry so we also let her eat at this time.  The change in her appearance was dramatic.  She got bigger with her pregnancy so slowly that I hadn't realized how big she had actually gotten.  She now appears very sunken in on the sides and much, much skinnier!


It wasn't until this point that we checked to see their sex.  First a girl, then a boy!  

It as also at this point that my kids started begging me to keep the boy too!  This is why we had discussed this far, far ahead of time and made arrangements for any boys that would come.  Children are easily swayed by cute little cuddly creatures.  However, that cute, cuddly boy is going to turn into a smelly buck that pees on itself to attract a female!!  If you are familiar with the 'buck smell' you know what I am talking about!  Some people associate buck smell with goat milk and that is why they don't like it.  Or at least why they think they don't like it!  Clara's buckling is too close a relative for us to use for breeding, even if I wanted to keep a buck.  We knew beforehand that we would not be keeping any males and I had arranged for a place for them.

It is very important that colostrum gets in baby mammals ASAP.  Some of my books said 20 minutes and some said within an hour.  After feeding Clara her molasses water I tried milking her.  I don't have a lot of experience milking goats - just milking 2 goats a few times each.  However, even a newbie like me knows when nothing is coming out!  To stimulate things, I put Esme down to nurse.  That's what she wanted to do anyway!



She didn't really get anything but she was able to stimulate the let down of the milk.  I then milked Clara, what I could get anyway.  Colostrum is indeed a sticky, sticky substance!!  

They each really only got a minimal amount in them.  I saved what I had milked out and focused on keeping an eye on Clara & the babies and dipped the umbilical cords in iodine.  It has really surprised me how quickly they have shriveled up!  Incredible!  We took time for some more snuggles too!  

It is very important that the doe passes her placenta within 12 hours at the most.  I checked on Clara frequently.  After about 6 hours she did indeed pass it.  Most does will eat the placenta and some owners will let this happen and some won't.  I had decided, after reading about it, to let her eat at least some of it, if she wanted to.  However, she did not even attempt to.  Our dog, however, certainly wanted it!!  







Even in the coldest of winter it is usually okay to keep little goaties out in the barn.  They are, after all, farm animals!!  Most of my books suggested a 'goat box', which is basically a smaller area with blankets so that they can stay warm.  Some say tha once you bring them in, which most can't resist doing, you should keep them in.  Some say it doesn't matter.  Again, many choices.  I chose to bring them in.  We have a 'shop' which is where Kevin works.  He has enjoyed having them around and watching them!  It's a good place for Piper, our dog, to get used to them.  Some people won't have dogs around goats and I'm sure this is often a poor combination.  However, we've had Clara for almost two years now, we have chickens and ducks and a rabbit.  Piper is quite used to being around other animals.  We have spent a good amount of time snuggling the kids in the shop, but we have also prepared a box with a towel for a snuggly and safe place for them to sleep.






They don't stay in the box the whole time.  Not at all!  The first day they did a lot of learning to walk.  They very much look like Bambi on the ice - trying to get their footing!  The second day they were prancing around.  Goat are very social.  They follow us around the shop and stay very close to each other.




My girl is having a little trouble with one of her back feet.

By the first morning, less than 24 hours after being born, they were pooping out that first blacky tar meconium.  Super sticky!!

I have had many questions about why we didn't keep them with Clara to be dam-raised and why we are choosing to bottle feed.  Again, it's another one of those choices.  There are good goat keepers on both sides.  I will tell you some of the reasons why I decided to bottle feed them:
~We will have much gentler goats, being hand-raised.  Clara and Katahdin were bottle-raised and they are very, very easy to handle.  

The whole reason that we have goats is so that we can enjoy the fresh, raw, glorious & delicious milk that goats can give us!  In order to have that milk, goats need to freshen/have kids every year.  If you leave a kid with a doe, some kids will continue to nurse long after they need the nutrition of their mama's milk.  It's impossible to keep a kid from nursing when she is with her mama.  We plan to wean at about 8 weeks old.  Some kids could nurse off their mama up to a year.  We want that milk for us!

~Contrary to what my daughter feels and what some think, it is not at all damaging Clara, hurting her feelings, for us to take the kids.  I know Clara very well and she is well & happy and adjusting to this new thing called 'milking'!  

These are the main reasons why I chose to remove the kids from Clara and to bottle raise them.  Ask any dairy farmer you may know.  It is very common to remove babies after birth and to bottle feed them!  It's really okay!  Although it certainly is easier in some ways, in the short term!  Milking to put in bottles & washing bottles!  However, in the long term our goal here is milk production and we treat our animals very, very kindly!

In fact, because we are not a 'farm' and Clara is indeed our pet, we have brought the kids to her just to see how she responds.  She licks them some, but doesn't take a lot of interest in them.  I am confident that if they had stayed with her she would have taken care of them though.

I have already mentioned that the kids weren't sucking very well.  I had read about tube feeding but I certainly didn't want to go down that road if I didn't have to!!  I had the correct caprine nipples & I tried and tried to teach them.  I ended up using a vet syringe some because I knew how important it was for them to get the colostrum.

I was unprepared for the bottle feeding to be so difficult.  I had thought it would all come naturally and easily.  Well, it didn't!  At 11:00 p.m. Kevin & I finally had success, after much effort, using an old glass baby bottle that I drank from as a baby!  Even though that nipple is smaller than a teat, the kids could get milk out of it and they just weren't getting any milk out of the nipple I purchased.


Right now I am milking twice a day and feeding the kids four times a day.  They are getting a little over 4 oz. at a feeding and we will be increasing that.  Once they learned to suck well that first night, they are right 'on it' and know exactly what they are doing!  I tried the caprine nipples again this morning, (at almost 48 hours after bith), and they still couldn't quite get it so I used the baby bottle again.  We mostly feed them with them standing on the floor.  It's a more natural stance for them and they are very squirmy on the lap!

I have a lovely double boiler from dear Nancy and I use that to gently warm the milk.  For the feedings that come directly after the milking I just put it right from the milk pail into the bottle.


Goats are ruminents, ('4 stomachs'), but at first only one of its four stomach chambers is functioning.  Because of this a kid digests milk like a puppy or human baby with a one-part stomach.  The bottle needs to be held at a certain angle and the goats head and neck must be in a certain position in order for the milk to go to the right place.  

A little lengthier than I would have liked - but that is our basic experience with the birth of our two kids from our dear Clara!  I will do a future post about milking, but I am so bad at it that at this point I am not qualified to do so!  





Friday, March 14, 2014

Celebrating Pi Day - March 14th - A Home Education Post

Happy Pi Day
This year is the first time we have celebrated Pi Day!  I am friends with several math teachers/math lovers on facebook and I always like seeing how they celebrate with their students.  Micah is only 10 so he has not yet encountered 'pi' in his math curriculum.  However, Noelle uses it and it seemed like a good time to jump in and make a fun day out of it!  I searched online & came up with some good ideas.

Noelle suggested we 'each make a pie that expresses our personality.'  While appreciating her enthusiasm I decided that she could make one & Micah could make one.  

Noelle had a 'pumpkin cream' pie at her uncle & aunt's house in Texas, at Thanksgiving time, this past year.  I'm not exactly sure what she had, but I found a pudding-type recipe and that is what she made.  The decoration was her idea!



Micah gets overwhelmed by sweets, so he decided that he wanted to make a chicken pot pie.  Sidenote:  He said a few funny things while he was making it.  As he was chopping carrots & potatoes & cooking them & making the sauce he said, "Boy, cooking is a lot of work!"  Then, when I grabbed a spatula for his to use he said, "Hey, I just washed that yesterday!"  Then, when he was done he said, "I think I need to go lie down now!"  He did the pi cut-out himself.




Baking pies is fun, but that doesn't really teach us much about math or pi though, so moving on~

I love Noelle's enthusiasm.  She can bring a lot of energy and joy to us.  This morning she completely surprised me by coming downstairs with a homemade Pi shirt & nerd glasses.  I loved it!  


We started our day with a Pi Day Workout!  Kind-of a mini P.E. class for them.  And me.  But thankfully no one was taking pictures of me, because I really stink at burpees!  (Pi Workout idea came from 'Skirt Sports'.)




We made a graph of the frequency of the first 100 digits of pi.  We did a pi scavenger hunt.  (Ideas from TeachersPayTeachers.)  We watched several helpful youtube videos on the subject of pi. For Micah, de-mystifying math concepts is very important because otherwise he will get stuck.  It was a perfect time to introduce him to the fact that 'pi' is just a symbol for a very special number.  We also enjoyed our pie!!!




There is a great book, Sir Cumference and the Dragon of Pi by Cindy Neuschwander & illustrated by Wayne Geehan.  We were able to get it through inter-library loan.  We really took our time reading it so that the concept of circumference divided by diameter equals pi was fully understood.  We also did a little activity to reinforce the concept.  (Idea also from TeachersPayTeachers.)  
When Micah was reading one of these worksheets that said '#5', instead of saying 'Number 5' he said 'hashtag 5'!!  Oh, a sign of the times!  Noelle said that she is Hermione and that I am Professor Snape because she is always raising her hand I am not calling on her!  Because we did joint-things today, I did call on Micah more because I didn't want him relying on Noelle's knowledge, I wanted to make sure he was understanding what we were talking about.  I do know that he grasped it because he was later able to demonstrate it with the maple trees we are tapping.  Also, Micah making his chicken pot pie came right after we read this book.  When he cut the carrots he cut a slice and showed me the circumference.  Then he cut that slice in half and showed me the diameter.  Then he cut that in half and showed me the radius.



And then of course we have a creative & an impish boy, which brings about things like this: 

Next I had a couple of outside activites for the kids.  Noelle figured out that this was really a way to get them to do some chores!!  Most of our Pi learning today was about c x d = pi.  However, I also talked about pi times r-squared = area of the circle.  I challenged them to find the area of the trampoline....  
....while shoveling off the heavy snow that we just got!  
Micah found the area in inches & Noelle found it in feet.  Then we talked about how it's not really square feet but cubic feet, as far as the snow shoveling is concerned.
(measuring the diameter.)


For one last activity we headed to the woods.  Due to well over a foot of snow yesterday, my maple sap buckets looked like this:
I wanted to take the opportunity to clean the snow off my buckets.  Plus, I do enjoy a good snowshoe through the woods with my kiddos.


You need to know the diameter of a tree in order to know how many spiles, (one, two, or three), you can use.  What a great opportunity for us to put to practice what we have learned today!  Now, it would be easy enough to make a very decent, good, and accurate estimate of the diameter.  However, there was a purpose to this activity, and so we didn't estimate.  
We did not bring a long enough tape measure!  I won't go through the details of the math, but they had to measure the circumference of trees, divide it by pi, (they figured out that this is what they would need to do), to then find the diameter.  Trees with a diameter greater than 25" can handle 3 spiles.  This is a 3-spile tree!

Sources differ, but trees with a diameter of about 18 to 25 inches can handle 2 spiles.  This is a 2-spile tree.

Ah, a little help please!  This is the best producer that I have tapped right now.  A sugar maple.  It has 3 trunks & we have tapped two of them.  Noelle measured this part of the trunk.  She determined that it is definitely large enough to tap, (must be 10" in diameter to tap), but is well within the one-spile range, which is about 10-18".  



Micah measured the other portion of the tree and had similar results.  

That concludes our Pi Day celebration today.  It was a lot of fun & hopefully if you stop my child and ask them about Pi they will be able to tell you at least something!  :)











Tuesday, March 4, 2014

The Service We Offer Others - A Parenting Post

This post runs the risk of either sounding or being self-serving.  That isn't my intention.  Instead I want it to serve as an encouragement to serve, in big or small ways.  Kind-of a snapshot of the evolution of my understanding of serving & how to implement that in a family.

Yesterday Noelle, Micah & I had the pleasure of volunteering at CEF.  This is the second time we've been able to help put out a mailing.  It is about the simplest & easiest way to serve that I can imagine.  3.5 hours, (including a lunch break), of folding newsletters & stuffing envelopes.  I feel guilty that they even serve us lunch, as it really isn't necessary.  As we left the office & were headed out the door, Micah said, "Look Mom!  4 papercuts!"  On the way home he told me, without prompting, in his own words as only Micah can do, "Mom, my joy meter went WAY up today after serving at CEF!"

Coupled with our pastor's sermon on Sunday, I couldn't help but think.....

I grew up in a service-minded home.  My parents volunteered & currently volunteer.  Church, parachurch organizations & also non-religious organizations, such as Hospice.  Their service didn't end there but extended to personally helping neighbors & other people.  It wasn't uncommon for us to gather to rake leaves for an elderly person.  Mom would sometimes suggest that I babysit without pay for a family.


Therefore, it was certainly natural for me to serve others in several capacities.  Naturally I believe that when I am serving others I am really serving God and the people I am actually serving.  And without a doubt the one who serves receives at least as much blessing out of service as the one being served.  We serve for a variety of purposes and reasons.  I think at the core is the fact that 'It's the right thing to do' and God tells us to.  I think it's also honest to admit that we serve because it gives us purpose & helps us 'feel good'.  Serving takes our eyes off self and we can all use more of that!

So anyway~
Church lends itself to serving, (as it should!)  Nursery & teaching children in Junior Church or Sunday School.  Directing Vacation Bible School or helping out with other ministries.  Baking food & leading mission trips.  Cleaning out a closet. Bringing meals to those who need them.  Serving at a camp.  The list goes on & on.  
Then of course there are ways to serve people in our own communities.  Bringing food to a neighbor.  Piling wood for an elderly person.  Babysitting.  Volunteering at school.  I have learned that service may be washing someone's hair & blow drying it.  This was way out of my comfort zone but something I found myself doing for someone not so long ago.  

However I did not realize that there is a connection between serving together as a family and a lower statistic of children 'leaving the faith' when they become adults.  That's an added incentive and kind-of a 'bonus'.  

Sometime I should really write a post about 'Faith at Home'.  It is actually one of my absolute PASSIONS

This is where my pastor's message comes in because he mentioned in his message the statistics about how over 70% of kids growing up in the church leave the faith once they become an adult.  He followed that with other statistics as well.

Please allow me to very briefly tell about when I came to understand this information. It was pivotal in my walk with the Lord & in my parenting & also how I came to view ministry within the church.  Several years ago, I'm going to roughly guess about 5-6 years ago, my friend, Lynne & I went to Lewiston for a Focus on the Family parenting simulcast.  It turned out to be life-changing for me.  (Briefly)... One of the speakers was Mark Holmen & he spoke about Faith at Home.  He mentioned these same discouraging statistics & he brought to my attention a new 'Faith at Home' movement that is based on Deuteronomy 6.  I devoured his books & Brian Haynes' book Shift and even some of Think Orange by Reggie Joiner.  There were specific numbers thrown out about what % of parents talk to their kids about faith, read the Bible with them, etc.  I've loaned all these books out, so I don't have the specifics.  In fact, I didn't even believe the statistics.  I grew up in a home where we had family devotions.  It was hard for me to believe what they were saying, that most people were two or three generations away from that experience.  I even surveyed the families of my church & compiled the data to give the leadership so that we could see where the holes were right in our own church.  I found that it was true.  Families were not doing these things, for the most part.  

I could go on & on about that - but back to service.  I don't have all the specific numbers, but less than 10% of families who attend church regularly participate in an act of service together as a family.

Wow.  I had never before made the connection that it was that important to serve together.  I was predisposed to want to and I was already serving but this helped me start to be very intentional about finding family service projects.  Long after our dear children leave our nest, Kevin & I plan to keep on serving.

I have previously chronicled our giving experiences with Operation Christmas Child/Samaritan's Purse and that can be found here:

This is easier said than done!  There are not an abundance of service opportunities for elementary aged children.  

One of the very best 'finds' we had turned out to be serving at Manna, which is, in part, a local soup kitchen.  I am forever grateful that they allowed my children to serve.  So for an entire year, nearly every Tuesday at supper time, my husband & I and our three children, ages 7, 9 & 10, served there.  We dished out food, we passed out plates of food.  We poured drinks.  We cleared plates & cleaned up afterwards.  Sometimes there were more volunteers than were really necessary for the number of people coming in to eat.  I like to be useful, so I would often go down to the food pantry and organize and put away food.  We would have continued doing this, but my job changed slightly and I started working on Tuesday nights & other nights didn't work for us to be there, so serving at Manna ended for us at that time.  This was a wonderful, wonderful, WONDERFUL experience for our family.  For so many reasons & in so many ways.  

Another super service experience for our family, (minus Micah), was in the summer of 2011 when Kevin & I led a group of preteens, (including D & Noelle), on a GROUP mission trip in York, PA.  I've done a couple of GROUP trips but it was Kevin's first time.  It was very special to have our girls on our team.  Our plan was to lead another one in 2013.  Both Micah & Noelle would have gone and that would have given Micah a chance to be part of this fantastic experience.  However, I did not have peace about it, and knowing now what I do, I can see that God was guiding me through that very clearly.  This GROUP trip was also an amazing experience.  It opened up their eyes to those less fortunate and showed them what a big deal it is to work on making a difference in the lives of others.






You know, sometimes the 'easy' ways to help are the mission trips & organizations.  I want the kids to have a well-rounded view of serving.  Sometimes it's serving ME by sweeping the goat poop off the porch!  Babysitting without pay when you would really like the money.  Shoveling snow for a cranky neighbor.  Stopping to give a giftcard or a box of Triscuits to someone who is begging. On several occassions we have taken our children downtown in Bangor, sometimes with other children, to pass out hot coffee & lunches.  Sometimes it just means filling in a hole!


In this self-serving culture we live in where it is 'all about me' right NOW, it is SO important for both the individual's sake & for the good of the family that we learn to serve together.  It's an added bonus that it also will enrich your child's faith.  Look around you because opportunities abound.  Be creative about your serving.  Involve your family!  Just Do It.

"One act of beneficence, one act of real usefulness, is worth all the abstract sentiment in the world."  -Ann Radcliffe

"Giving frees us from the familiar territory of our own needs by opening our mind to the unexplained worlds occupied by the needs of others."  -Barbara Bush